The Reluctant Carer

I care for my husband who has Huntington's Disease. I'm new to this caring or 'uncaring' and I'm struggling. In being honest about this, maybe other carers will feel less guilty and less alone.

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Having Balls

It was Roo's review yesterday. Doctors, specialists and therapists all joined together to discuss how he was getting on and where he was heading. I had been told by a particularly patronising consultant, that I would find such a meeting intimidating. She told me that I would be surrounded by professionals......hmm, don't carers count as professionals then? As I have been the one co-ordinating his care, I decided that I should lead the meeting. There seemed little point in bemoaning my lot; I seem to do enough of that here, and it was an ideal opportunity to get some action in terms of care and activities for Roo.
Of course the down side of this, is that I came across as competent and in control. A woman with balls is coping of course. Umm?

4 Comments:

  • At 7:11 AM, Anonymous stanne said…

    Well done!!
    What you need to accept is that you ARE competant and as in control as one can be in such a situation. YOU have faced up to the problems caused by Roo's illness and helped him face upto them too. YOU have ensured that he has got the best care available and YOU kept a roof over his head and his family around him.
    You ARE AMAZING!!
    I hope the meeting has got you and Roo the support that you need.

     
  • At 4:00 AM, Blogger anne said…

    it does sound as if you are doing much better, and calmer, even if you don't feel a tremendous difference yourself. i like some of the light-heartedness i see in recent posts that tells me you are not so despondent right now.
    being in control might feel like too much responsibility sometimes, but it IS empowering.

     
  • At 3:16 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    find something better to do with your life instead of being in a hole.. it is better to do things that are going to benfit you instead of b@@@@@@@@ about your f'in problems ok????????????????



    stop bitchen
    mofo...............
    rotten prince

     
  • At 3:19 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    oh yeah my name is mint makea, if you wanted to know



    hahaha
    let me know

     

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